Book Review: From incels to trad wives, culture critic probes 21st century backlash against feminism

Sophie Gilbert a London-based staff writer for the Atlantic magazine has taken a survey of the Anglo-American pop heritage landscape and her findings aren t pretty In a new book Girl on Girl How Pop Lifestyle Turned a Generation of Women Against Themselves she concludes that after decades of social and political progress for women the patriarchy has come roaring back in the st century with the new-old belief that women s proper place is in the kitchen and bedroom not the boardroom or the military As a millennial herself Gilbert longed to explore from the perspective of a critic how and why seemingly every genre of entertainment in the s from movies and music to TV and fashion was sending girls the message that it was OK to look and act like a pinup girl again Why were we so easily persuaded of our own inadequacy Who was setting the agenda Why for decades and even now has virtually every cultural product been so insistently oriented around male desire and male pleasure she writes The reasons are manifold and the results indisputably clear In music the ferocious activist ability of riot grrrls gave way to the hyper-commercialized Spice Girls over the module of the s Meanwhile the emergence of hardcore rap celebrated misogyny and sexual violence against women In literature and later in film Bridget Jones pioneered an enduring new female archetype the trainwreck In fashion powerful supermodels who knew what they were worth and demanded to be paid for it were phased out in favor of frail passive teenagers But in Gilbert s view nothing was as influential as the proliferation of porn which has trained both men and women to see the latter as objects as things to silence restrain fetishize or brutalize She nods to it in the meaning of her double-barreled title Girl on girl is both a genre of porn and an acknowledgement of the way women have been turned against themselves and each other by the forces of postfeminism Chapter by chapter Gilbert methodically shows how the backlash against second- and third-wave and riot grrrl feminism fueled the rise of incel practices trad wives the stay-at-home girlfriends on TikTok and much more There is a lot to unpack here but it is well worth the effort Especially if you like Gilbert are still coming to grips with the reversal of Roe v Wade in and the reelection of Donald Trump last year demonstrating the evident appeal of his message to both men and a sizable minority of women AP book reviews https apnews com hub book-reviews Source